Get out of a rut
Eleven simple suggestions provide help in getting unstuck from life's spiritual ruts
By Tony Staley
Compass Editor
We all occasionally find ourselves in a rut. Fortunately,
knowing we're stuck in a rut is the first step in getting
unstuck.
Ruts, of course, are habits that we want to change so we can
become better, thus enriching our lives and making them more
interesting.
Among the ruts we can find ourselves in are spiritual ones.
So how to get of them? LuAnn McLane, a freelance writer and
mother of four from Erlanger, Ky., looks at 11 ways to break out of
religious ruts in the March 2003 issue of St. Anthony
Messenger, a splendid magazine published by the Franciscan
Friars of St. John the Baptist Province in Cincinnati.
Here are the 11 simple suggestions McLane came up with "to
change some good habits and beat boredom, thus finding a fresh
approach to keeping our faith alive and kicking":
Attend a different Mass on Sunday. She suggests going
to a folk, choral or children's Mass or hearing the preaching from
a different priest or deacon as ways to have a fresh
experience.
Find a new spot to sit in church as a way to gain a
different perspective and to meet different people since most of us
sit in the same spot every week.
Volunteer for something new, such as a different job
for the parish picnic, a new ministry or different parish committee
or run for the parish council.
Say no firmly, but politely to avoid over-volunteering
and to give others a chance to serve the community.
Listen and think while praying to be aware of what God
has to say.
Read, reflect and share with others, especially from
spiritual books and Catholic magazine and newspaper articles.
Seek out new saints beyond the ones you know so well.
She suggests www.AmericanCatholic.org; The Compass
website, www.thecompassnews.org, has biographies of more
than 100 saints.
Sing a new song by joining in at Sunday Mass, by
listening to a Christian radio station or buying Christian
recordings.
Shake up the holidays by concentrating on the religious
meaning of Christmas and Easter and by making ample time for
family.
Venture out of your comfort zone by doing something
you're not accustomed to, such as lectoring, teaching religious
education to teens or giving a faith witness on a weekend
retreat.
Sport a new attitude by changing the manner in which
you do the things you normally do.
Lent is a season of change and reform. Getting out of ruts is a
great way to bring about change.
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