Community of Our Lady in Oshkosh will celebrate 50th anniversary

Monks offer spiritual direction, prayers for all people

OSHKOSH — For half a century, the monks of the Community of Our Lady Monastery have been leading a prayer-centered life on a tranquil location on the shore of Lake Butte des Morts. They will celebrate the 50th anniversary of their monastery Aug. 25 with a noon Mass led by Bishop David Ricken and special guests.

“This is to thank almighty God for the gift of our vocation and the gift of the community itself,” said Fr. Regis Norbert Barwig. He said people have supported the monastery with prayers, services and participation over the years, and the anniversary celebration will “thank people for their kindness to us.”

Fr. Augustine Hamilcar Serafini, left, and Fr. Regis Norbert Barwig, founded the Community of Our Lady Monastery in Oshkosh and dedicated it to Our Lady of Czestochowa. A replica of the sacred icon is pictured behind them. The community, referred to as a Pious Union within the Diocese of Green Bay, will celebrate its 50th anniversary on Aug. 25. (Michael Cooney | For The Compass)

Fifty years ago, Fr. Barwig, Fr. Augustine Serafini and Fr. Eugene Kalinski had been together at St. Procopius Abbey in Lisle, Ill., professed as Benedictine monks and were involved in teaching. After the Second Vatican Council, they sought to establish a more prayer-centered community. They were invited into the Diocese of Green Bay by then-Bishop Aloysius J. Wycislo.

In 1968, with the personal blessing of Pope Paul VI and under canonical authority of Bishop Wycislo, the trio established the community, referred to as a Pious Union, within the Diocese of Green Bay. “You will find a good bishop and a place and will do God’s will,” the pope declared. “I bless your work and resolve.”

They spent their first year in Green Bay. Then, at the suggestion of the bishop, they established their permanent home on the lakehouse property in Oshkosh. The Community of Our Lady Monastery is dedicated to Our Lady of Czestochowa, a sacred icon in Poland.

Br. Joseph Le Sanche was a fourth member of the community for several years, and Fr. Kalinski died in 2012. Fr. Barwig, 87, and Fr. Serafini, 82, are the remaining members of the community.

“We wanted a more contemplative way of life, in prayer,” Fr. Serafini said. “The priesthood was foremost in my thoughts and prayers since childhood.” Through his studies, he became interested in the history of the church, St. Benedict, the founder of western monasteries, and the contemplative life.

Although the monks continue to follow the Rule of St. Benedict and are dedicated primarily to prayer, “we’re not isolated,” Fr. Barwig said. Both Fr. Barwig and Fr. Serafini said that life and the service of God are meant to be shared.

The community is self-sustaining and has always been involved in a variety of services aimed at bringing to people peace and understanding of the faith. “Our purpose is to present Christ to the world, beginning in our hearts and the way we live,” Fr. Barwig said.

They have assisted local parishes, offered one-on-one spiritual direction with individuals both in person and through correspondence, guided people in prayer, held retreats and study groups, and participated in mission work.

Fr. Barwig does translations from Latin, Italian, Polish, Hebrew and Greek. He has published five books and numerous articles, and Fr. Serafini has published two books.

They also hold daily weekday services at 5 p.m. and one on Sundays at 11:30 a.m. “All these voices together give glory to God,” Fr. Barwig said. “And the voices are very beautiful.”

But they stress that they are not a parish. “We’re not supposed to be a ‘sheep-stealer,’” Fr. Barwig said with a smile. “They also should be active in their parish. We aim to bring people peace, give them an outpost for worship and give more profound meaning to our faith.”

Fr. Serafini said having a mind for the whole church helps themselves and their visitors to reaffirm their spiritual life and to renew their lives. “People have come here to get some equilibrium,” he said, and they have tried to guide seeking Christians through trials in their lives.

Fr. Barwig added, “The monastic life is fed by the work of God, the sacred literature, prayer and celebration of the holy Eucharist. We make these available to others.

“The monastery is a microcosm of the church. Your best contribution is prayer for people and prayer for the church. We are here to keep alive the faith. It’s a useful blessed thing to see how we can support others in their striving to serve God,” he said.

The monks are here to be of service in a spiritual way, added Fr. Barwig, and the anniversary celebration is an occasion for them to renew and readdress their purpose in life.

“We want to (recognize) the grand purpose of why we are here — the service of God. In a monastic sense, it’s what you are that is more important than what you do. We give spiritual direction to people, and prayers help in spiritual life.”